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February 28, 2005: (Click Here for that day’s blog)   

Rob:

 

I checked out your blog (again, since you added the Proverbs 7 hyperlink). 
Looks good.  Your comments were well written and certainly
you talked to a very
WIDE audience (all men on the Internet, and probably a few women).


a member of fbcgalt


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February 28, 2005 

Subject: about your blog     (Click Here for that day’s blog) 

 

Hi Pastor Rob,

 

I read your web log this morning and it was very good.  I find it interesting though that this is the second time in three weeks that I have heard mention of porn or lustful things from a church member.

However, no one ever mentions the fact that this might affect women as well.  It seems like it is always spoken about like it only afflicts men.  As if men are the only ones who can be tempted with this particular sin.  I suppose that is because, in general, it is a guy thing but honestly, as a woman, I struggle with my porn addiction, at the very least, once a week. 

Now this is pretty good (considering that I have been porn free now for over a year) but it used to be a struggle everyday.  I got addicted when we first got Internet, about 6 years ago, and although it was then the "normal" kind [soft porn], that slowly got boring and progressed into worse, and worse types.  I won't go into the kind I looked at, but it is safe to say that I have seen everything the internet has to offer, and it quite often was not something even my other guy friends wanted to see. 

 

After deciding that I should probably take this out of my life, as it was giving me some very bad mental thoughts, I cut out everything except one website.  And then much later, I made the huge sacrifice of getting rid of that too.  Let me tell you, that was hard.  I wanted to go there everyday but I didn’t (and I have not been back there)! 

So, I guess the whole point of this was just to let you in on the fact that there are women out there too who get caught up in this stuff, sometimes, as in my case, much worse then most.  Luckily, I was able to recognize that I had gone too far.  Obviously, this is not the kind of topic one usually brings up in Sunday School, or at my church but I thought that it might give you something to think about (when you are thinking up your ideas that you mentioned in your blog).  That way, maybe they could include women as well.  I think sometimes we are forgotten in the discussion.

 

A Reader

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